I really hope you were kidding about instant replay. It's dumb enough in the NFL.
As for stalling being called quickly, I don't think it was called any quicker than any other time. Stalling should be called quickly. The way the rule reads is that on your feet you should be on offense and wrestling as close to the center circle as possible. On top you should be working for the fall and underneath you should be working to get out. Poor officiating is failing to have the stones to call good wrestlers for playing the edge, riding parallel, or going par terre underneath.
What happens is that during the season, you tend to see poorer officials who are afraid to call stalling. Then you get into the post-season -- especially Districts and State -- and only the best officials are there. THEY actually call stalling the right way. If you haven't seen it called the right way all year, you're going to assume it's wrong.