Originally posted by Magic 10:
It is funny you say that because I too have had that conversation with some of my parents. I remind them of the big picture- we want to keep as many out as we can. We want to build fundamentals, and if you aren't sure how to do that I would be more than willing to work with them and the kids on those. I have clinics and camps where we really hit those areas hard. The big picture of course would be to give the kids the ultimate experience of playing at Des Moines. Now that does not always materialize but the road to the prize is ultimately the experience that one has during that process. We have had groups that did not do travelling teams and we had groups that did not win many games, but overall the program is solid because some groups do and we have wonderful parents who step up and keep the big picture intact. I will be one of those weekend tournament coaches soon so it will be interesting to see what "experiences" I have at that level.
On another note, I have officiated weekend tournaments for many years and it is always interesting to see the level of "coaching" that goes on at those events. I from time to time redirect coaches to helping their kids get better than from helping me "get better" at officiating. It will serve them better in the long run. That always cracks me up